Understanding Yourself as well as others!


¶ So long as you live in a civilized or thickly populated community you will still need to understand your own nature and the natures of other people. No matter what you desire of life, other people’s aims, ambitions and activities constitute vital obstructions along your pathway. You will never get far without the co-operation, confidence and comradeship of other men and women.

Primitive Problems
¶ It was not always so. And its recentness in human history may account for some of our blindness to this great fact.

In primitive times people saw each other rarely and had much less to do with each other. The human element was then not the chief problem. Their environmental problems had to do with such things as the elements, violent storms, extremes of heat and cold, darkness, the ever-present menace of wild beasts whose flesh was their food, yet who would eat them first unless they were quick in brain and body.

Civilization’s Changes
¶ But all that is changed. Man has subjugated all other creatures and now walks the earth its supreme sovereign. He has discovered and invented and builded until now we live in skyscrapers, talk around the world

“world without wires and by pressing a button turn darkness into daylight.

Causes of Failure
¶ Yet with all our knowledge of the outside world ninety-nine lives out of every hundred are comparative failures.

¶ The reason is plain to every scientific investigator. We have failed to study ourselves in relation to the great environmental problem of today. The stage-setting has been changed but not the play. The game is the same old game—you must adjust and adapt yourself to your environment or it will destroy you.

Mastering His Own Environment
¶ The cities of today look different from the jungles of our ancestors and we imagine that because the brain of man overcame the old menaces no new ones have arisen to take their place. We no longer fear extermination from cold. We turn on the heat. We are not afraid of the vast oceans which held our primitive forebears in thrall, but pass swiftly, safely and luxuriously over their surfaces. And soon we shall be breakfasting in New York and dining the same evening in San Francisco!

Facing New Enemies
¶ But in building up this stupendous superstructure of modern civilization man has brought into being a society

“intricate and complex that he now faces the new environmental problem of human relationships.

The Modern Spider’s Web
¶ Today we depend for life’s necessities almost wholly upon the activities of others. The work of thousands of human hands and thousands of human brains lies back of every meal you eat, every journey you take, every book you read, every bed in which you sleep, every telephone conversation, every telegram you receive, every garment you wear.

And this fellowman of ours has multiplied, since that dim distant dawn, into almost two billion human beings, with at least one billion of them after the very things you want, and not a tenth enough to go around!

Adapt or Die
¶ Who will win? Nature answers for you. She has said with awful and inexorable finality that, whether you are a blade of grass on the Nevada desert or a man in the streets of London, you can win only as you adapt yourself to your environment. Today our environmental problem consists largely of the other fellow. Only those who learn to adapt themselves to their fellows can win great or lasting rewards.”

The Goddess Bibles

A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Helping Life’s Energy Source with Changes on Yourself for Once !

It’s time for you to be great, act great, look impeccable and say “I got this is in the bag”

Use this as a healing session to help you with any life changes or energy sources that you may like. When you feel that the time is right, make sure to not be disturbed for about 20-30 minutes.

This means peace and quiet, no one needs to be around. If they are kindly ask them to leave and say you need your time for yourself at this moment. When you are ready, get in a comfortable position, you might want to lie dow and meditate. This is to allow you to get rid of any energy blockages you might be having. This unsupported energy does not make you the best version of yourself.

Energy blockages can make you feel fatigued, disconnected, demotivated, uninspiring and unhealthy to the world and to yourself. It’s more internal though. When your comfortable, it is time to get ready.

Your going to sit in a comfortable place from all distractions and do a beautiful meditation or listen to Alan watts Hes one of my ultimate favorites!

Enjoy your relaxing time for yourself!

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Laura Zukerman

Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Becoming Your Inner Goddess

Goddess on Fire🤲🤩💖

Your Self Esteem and You

img_2428Know that if you do not know that your boundaries are different from others, then your self esteem might be at stake. You stand on the foundation of your boundaries. It supports your decisions, your willingness to do things, and all of your relationships, including the one you have with You.

Differentiation is the willingness to act different from your “tribe” members. That being said, the way you think, feel, act, all has to be different. You are not a follower, you are yourself. You must have boundaries and you must have healthy boundaries. Healthy boundaries are your personal indicator that you are differentiating yourself.

How did you learn that you were you? That wonderful, playful, spontaneous, joyful, creative and energetic person that you are or were as a child. You were not a mini version of someone else, you were not being compared to someone else and you were not unique in a way that others cultivated or insisted upon it.

You wanted to flourish based on your own thoughts and your own feelings and perceptions. Whatever you must have experienced , you must have considered it to be normal, because it was all that you knew. You are free to see things now as they really are.

Perhaps, you were raised in a family, that has rigid boundaries. This was the case if people barely felt how they actually feel. They focused more on what others thought of themselves. This type of family dynamic will say that they are close when they are far from it.

Perhaps you were raised in a family with chaotic or diffused boundaries. In this type of environment, decisions are based on feelings and not facts. Even when the facts would or could have been helpful for the family dynamic.  This high of intensity means that children at a young age do not tend to think, feel and act for themselves.

Perhaps you were abandoned, threatened with abandonment.  You may have been neglected somehow. Perhaps, you were not comfortable with reassurance when you needed it. You might have felt overwhelmed. You deserved to be comforted , reassured and often reminded how precious you were at a young age. You might have had a hard time finding who you were if you felt this way very young, feeling not wanted.

Now, forgive yourself.

Laura Zukerman

Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Becoming Your Inner Goddess

Goddess on Fire

 

 

 

What Does Being Lovable Look Like

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To love yourself begins with feeling secure with who you are. It is also about who you are becoming. You do not need permission from others, to flourish. It is to know yourself and your self worth. Know what you care about and know what you stand for. This is to be aware of your thoughts, feelings and perceptions. Your ability to say no is now in place.

You now have developed physical and sexual boundaries to help you feel safe.  You are now able to prioritize your decision making process. This informs you about who you can be vulnerable with and who you must avoid.

You know that when you make a mistake , it does not make you a mistake. You know where you end and others begin. This also frees up to know that what you feel is not what someone else feels. Also what someone else thinks is not necessarily what you think.

You have become compassionate with yourself and supportive of your own endeavors. You enjoy traveling and adventure, where you learn and grow and have these unexpected moments.

You began to learn , explore and think for yourself. You say what you mean and you mean what you say, you stick to your word. You will apologize if you do not and rectify the situation at hand.

You see yourself accurately not worse, nor better than you are, but just as you are. You know who you are, what you prefer, what your needs are and what your interested in. You also express these preferences by the way of choices that you make.

You begin to do what you say your going to do, even if the commitment is only to yourself. You develop an appropriate trust with yourself and others over time. Your not overly trusting, just the right amount.

You give and receive love and care as well as respect, consistently.  Also without having to be told. You behave according to your values. About, what it means to be a person, the person you want to be.

You know that you are responsible for your own happiness, you begin to weigh the consequences of actions on yourself and then on others. You tell the truth and your okay if someone else does not like this.

Your compassionate, empathetic and kind to others. This does not mean that you are a people pleaser. You begin to express what you want without any form of manipulation.  You do this without responding with the silent treatment, or with aggression or passive aggressiveness.

Laura Zukerman

Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Becoming Your Inner Goddess

Goddess On Fire

Way of Invincibility, put yourself beyond Defeat


  • People think that no one can be invincible. They believe that everyone can be defeated in one way or another, no matter how powerful they are. Therefore they think it is impossible to be invincible. But the truth is, invincibility is possible if you believe it is. It’s true that everyone can be defeated, but there’re those who have made themselves virtually undefeatable by following the way of invincibility. There is a way to be invincible and when you discover and follow it, you won’t be defeated even though you can be.
    You can make yourself invincible by playing only to your own strengths. It doesn’t matter how many different strategies and tools there are to use. You only need to make use of those that work best for you. It is foolishness of others when they think that you are not a master when you are not good at using many strategies and tools other than your own. Some of the most powerful masters in the world may only use one or two strategies or tools to defeat everyone else soundly. Invincibility is the simple way.

  • You can make yourself invincible by engaging only when it is advantageous to you. Who is to say that you must fight every battle that appears before you? Who is to say that you must take on every challenge? People who think like that are not the wisest and that is why they open themselves to defeat no matter how powerful they are. You create your reality and the kinds of challenges that come your way are created by you in the first place. Therefore you can choose to create and engage to your advantage.
    You can make yourself invincible by preventing your weaknesses from being exploited.
  • This is the key secret of invincibility. A strength is only a strength when it is what you can use to gain you victory. A weakness is only a weakness when it is something that can cause you defeat. Therefore you can take away an enemy’s strength by preventing him from gaining victory with it, and you can make a weakness of your own disappear by preventing it from causing you defeat. Prevention is the best protection.
    One way to prevent your weakness from being exploited is by not being there for the enemy to attack. Stay out of situations and places that you know are unfavorable for you. It is insane for a hand to hand combat master to enter into a place filled with gunmen or snipers. A wise fighter will not show up no matter how much the enemy tries to taunt him. If you have to enter such conditions, choose hit and run tactics. Get in and make your move, and then get out before the enemy can make a proper response.

  • The most lethal opponent is one that is unseen. If you can attack from the shadows and disappear when you are looked for, you will be a force to be reckoned with. The best attack is the least expected. When you strike at moments or in places where your enemy is off guard, he may be unable to put up a proper fight against you. When you move yourself away from places at times when he comes looking for you, he will be unable to touch you. This is the secret of invincible offense and invincible defense.

  • Having weaknesses that are unexposed is virtually having no weakness at all. Your enemy can observe your weaknesses all he wants. But as long as you play according to your strengths and engaging only when it is advantageous to you, he can observe your weaknesses all the way to his complete defeat. It may even seem as though those weaknesses only exist with others but not with you. That’s because both strengths and weaknesses do not exist in strategies or tools, but in the people using them.
    You can even advance your power of invincibility to the next level by using your weaknesses as a bait to draw the enemy in, and then to destroy him with a trap. In this case, what originally appears to be a weakness has been used as a strength.
  • This kind of playing defies all standard rules and ordinary boundaries of winning and losing. All strengths and weaknesses are illusions. Nothing is really a strength or a weakness until its effect is manifested on the playing field. Everything is neutral until it is used.
    Sun Tzu said the good fighters of old first put themselves beyond the possibility of defeat, and then waited for an opportunity of defeating the enemy. To secure ourselves against defeat lies in our own hands, but the opportunity of defeating the enemy is provided by the enemy himself. Thus the good fighter is able to secure himself against defeat, but cannot make certain of defeating the enemy. Be invincible yourself first, and then seek to break the enemy’s invincibility while not letting him break yours at all.

  • What the ancients called a clever fighter is one who not only wins, but excels in winning with ease. Hence his victories bring him neither reputation for wisdom nor credit for courage. He wins his battles by making no mistakes. Making no mistakes is what establishes the certainty of victory, for it means conquering an enemy that is already defeated. Hence the skillful fighter puts himself into a position which makes defeat impossible, and does not miss the moment for defeating the enemy whenever it arises.

  • Thus it is that in war the victorious strategist only seeks battle after the victory has been won, whereas he who is destined to defeat first fights and afterwards looks for victory. If you follow all the principles of being undefeatable, you can fight every battle with the outcome of victory secured. There is one final key of being undefeatable in the special case where you actually experience defeat, and that is to make the defeat work for you. In that case, you can never lose because every loss is turned into gain.

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Laura Zukerman

Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Becoming Your Inner Goddess

Goddess on Fire 🔥

You Must Never Use Your Word Against YOURSELF

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Continue Standing In Faith Through Difficulties

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Should you wear bracelets for stone adjustment everyday ? the answer is Yes

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Lesson #18 – Allow the World to Sync up

Allow the world to sync up, as you learn to sync up those around you, and as you learn to live in high vibrational harmony; harmony without yourself without the need for tools. With just the purity of power and presence ; the knowledge and inner wisdom that you are divine love , will incarnate.

You can allow the earth to sync up to your new high vibrational alignment. This does not however mean you must carry the world upon your shoulders. Quite the contrary , when you are in a state of surrender and allow the closest vibrational levels to rise to meet yours.

Everyone wins, and everyone of a higher consciousness will feel subtle, yet powerful differences. If you have gotten this far and you are feeling daily a high vibrational nature, you have already synced up with yourself or the highest version of you.

It should feel like pure bliss. If you are not here already, please do not chastise yourself for not being ready. That critical thinking will only go to serve you back and down again. Then , you will not become the light of the world you were meant to be. Repeat this course and it’s helpful tools , lessons and emotional / spiritual guide posts ; until you see the difference.

❤️

Laura Zukerman

Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Becoming Your Inner Goddess

Tapping into your Inner Goddess Wisdom

Goddess On 🔥

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Lesson #17 – you create your own problems

You create your own problems, you see, every single problem or obstacle you’ve ever seen is your conception. When you fear, you create situations in which to fear.

When you are angry , you create violence. When you are resentful, you create sickness for your whole body vehicle. When you have no doubt, you interfere with your souls purpose to remember it’s true nature- love.

When you ask how you got into your own way, this is it. We are not saying not to have these emotions, bottling inside will only serve to not get into your own way. We are saying to acknowledge that those feelings are there. To choose, a new feeling rapidly before these emotions change dimensions and attract a less than positive result.

For instance, you awake with a neck ache; perhaps you slept all night in one position that was conducive to a pain free existence. It happens in your sense reality. Notice it, perhaps rub it and change your schedule that day; to allow for rest and relaxation.

Maybe receive a massage or do something stretching and then move on the following day , to a pain free existence.

Alternatively, you could wake up and tell yourself how awful it was that you woke up with neck pain. You could cause a lot of suffering by choosing thoughts that back up why your life sucks; and is filled with pain.

You might get a stub your toe, thereby justifying, these thoughts. The sink may not work now because you are creating a filter of “my life is full of pain and suffering.” Rather than, my neck hurts today , and “therefore, I will take better care of myself today.”

❤️

Laura Zukerman

Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Becoming Your Inner Goddess

Tapping into your Inner Goddess Wisdom

Goddess On 🔥

#MYGODDESS #GETYOURGODDESSON