4 Secrets To Powerful Communication Lisa Nichols

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This is Lisa Nichols and what she has been able to accomplish in her life time, as a single mom, 20 years ago she could barely afford to buy diapers for her baby. Lisa Nichols is now one of 2 african american women business owners/ entrepreneurs. She has touched the lives of 20 million people in this year alone. In a mere 19 years, its incredible how someone could come this far. In 2010 Lisa Nichols spoke at Costa Rica – Afest. December 11. 

there are no accidents, there are divine appointments. synergies come together. Lisa has now spoken at every single A Fest , in 9 different countries, closing the event with her brilliance. 

Your going to learn what makes lisa such an insanely powerful woman. The ability to move people with a story, is what she is incredible at doing. We are going to learn what she does, how she does it and how it is applied. It is her gift, although it can be anyones skill set. Some of these techniques as a communicator, you use your super powers with the you from your conscious to your subconscious. Unconscious competence, she is consciously competent – but she can break it down into 30 different steps. She has taught 420 different speakers all over the world. Lisa is one of the highest paid trainers in the world, join her global leadership program. She has a phd entrepreneurship program, and its only in harnessing and using your message that you can cultivate what is delivered. Our ability to communicate- you change as a human being. Consider communication to be a set of words, you can add texture to it. Your unique serving proposition. Your USP. Lisa had a viral youtube post where 42 million observers have seen this video from 2014. Observing how she is articulating her story. 

Lisa has been through bankruptcy, having 11.42 dollars in her pocket, not able to buy diapers for her son, but then she decided to transform her babies life. She was a single mother, and had a father in prison. If she was going to drastically transform herself, she was going to do it. What is fascinating is that twenty minutes of content , intellectual exchange was not attached, what they connected to like glue, was the story. the possibility, the hope, the connection. 100’s of thousands of emails were received. What this story did for them was tap them into their resiliency, She then began to work with Steve harvey and other people around the scene. They knew what she stood for, she was real, she was broken and she was strong enough to stand up for inspiring people to get back up again, when she was knocked down. 

Knowing how powerful the story could be, she gave up something, she braced herself and calmed herself down. She served up something to America. They loved her, they wanted her to succeed , the realness, the vigor, the story, the inspiration. If you study great orators , they have a formula, they would start with a story, and then the secret she was one of the most wanted speakers in the speakers. Everyone was able to connect to her story. Never forget where you come from , no matter how far you have come. 

4 secrets to powerful communication- this will elevate you on a stage and its not from a place of competition its  a place for stories, audience of 1 or audiences of 1000. When your taking someone on an intellectual journey, you have to educate them, to get them to the cement to the bricks. It makes everything else matter. Listeners have context. Great story, time and a place, a year, and a place, then paint the picture of where they are what is happening. Think of it as a movie, Where in the world are you.  Bring me into the story and let me know where you are, pictures into your life, brings you into a part of me. Impactful stories need to have to fall in love with the characters, If you want to have power in life, you need to go deep. Style, who they are, dramatic, audiences want the performance, content, visual arts, texture.Best engagers, are so intriguing because they are so detailed and real. You can learn your visual content but they fall in love with you its from the stories, the gift to themselves, a great story , told well enough is an unforgettable experience. You want to be the one people remember! Intellect, Respect, and you can still be an entertainer.

At 6 years old Lisa Nichols knew she wanted to be a motivational speaker, She told her grandmother, then her grandmother told her she needed to read her speeches with the world, and thats when she realized she needed to inflict her stories upon the world. 

Secret vs TELLING- show me the story, all of a sudden I’m looking at an oral movie, game changer, captivating the audience, riveted by the story, they don’t want to miss one minute of your oral story. Its a skill set, hone and learn and master like any other skill set. Parameters need to be set, climate, city, tell you less and show you more. The listener then becomes a part of your journey. You tap into a void or a conformation. What they give you back as a result is loyalty. Now Lisa, confident and elegant touching 30 million lives a year. However, in 1994, she had her son and she had no where to go with him. This was her rockbottom, she could literally feel the ground on her back, two things happened, never hear again and two she wasn’t afraid what could happen from that point on.  She knew she had to get up and keep going. She Was emotionally scared. However, then playing at that 50 percent had become her 100 percent. Misery is what navigated her to realize she will never go back there again. 

Sharing content, teaching people things, entertaining intermission. bringing out emotions in other people. Its real! be you! Authenticity- you don’t have to make up anything, the truth is sexy, its chaos, its resilient, its unidentified, its an incident , a moment, when your faith was challenged. Or you could be the man or woman you thought you could always be. Fight for your perseverance, fight for your life,  fight for a man or a woman. 

She pulled out the extra strength tylenol, wanting to kill herself, she didn’t want to die, she didn’t want to live with this kind of pain. She wasn’t sure if 8 was going to kill her, so she prayed to god and asked her to bring her back into the light. Then she said that she would spend the rest of her life helping others find there light. This was Lisas real transformation, this is when she knew that she was going to do wonderful things for others. How powerful storytelling can be, these emotions running wild, know matter who your talking to, they will all have the same reaction. why? because its real, its potent and its powerful. No matter what title people have, they are a man and a woman, and she has mastered the ability to take you in, take you back out and why play safe when you can play POWERFUL. EVOKING emotion- letting people in, in this day of being connected to everyone , we tend to be connected to know one. Unless you tell a story, provoking. It is what happens to us into the darkness, that pushes us into the light. Sometimes those moments, even though painful, they are the gifts from heaven, to wake us up for what we are meant to do in the world. 

Being a game changer, have a conviction, your conviction and your convenience won’t ever live on the same block. They don’t want someone to have a different opinion then them. Martin Luther King Jr said if you don’t stand for anything, then you will fall for everything. What are you going to influence because you are here. Still inside every space, what you say when your not speaking. What is your sweat? What do you stand for? Melting walls, owning their voices, Breaking barriers, and stand for that thing that means everything to you. Stand for it the way you would stand for it. There is no measure that of the value that you bring to the world. Unity, would never be a problem ever again. These stories don’t just deliver a speech, they lead you to your mission. Bringing together people of different cultures is the most beautiful thing in the world. Segway that was made so clear has to be fueled by your conviction. How do you want to use your voice? Impact, Infect, Change, Charge- who you are is everything. Get clear on what you stand for. Own your whisper until it gets stronger. Nelson Mandela, Mahatma Ghandi or Martin Luther King Jr, yes they were incredible, but you don’t have to be them, be your own person. Benjamin Franklin says don’t measure your conviction to someone else’s, that is the thief of all joy. 

As a businesswoman, as a mother, more importantly allow us to feel it, because you just started speaking. The way you were willing to forgive the unforgivable. Incorporate, Transparency, Conviction and they will search for you giving you their heart, their loyalty. Lisa was the new girl in the secret, but she still shared her story and owned it! Within 72 hours of her being on Oprah, she received 9782 emails because of her story. You have no idea what doors your story will open up. They take you into a private place, well, they make you vulnerable, everyone wants to know the real invigorating, honest you. Share a moment when things weren’t so great, don’t walk it through so fast, show me 12345678 pills in your hand, or the connection that is impotent. When your speaking to an audience it could be 500 people , you are speaking to each individual, they came to be inspired. Resilience, inspiration, climbing over something, around something, breaking through something, and then the heroes journey, is always the most exciting. We think we are the underdogs, until we make it. We will be alright, no matter how many people are in your audience, the gift you give them will make them fall madly in love with you. Inspiration, your never too big for inspiration. You always need inspiration. You can always use a light. Connection, trust and they will give you love, loyalty and word of mouth. 

Slow down, hit the speed bump, Take your time, give me the gift of the journey. 15-17 different techniques of story telling. Pillars and techniques, each technique independent of the others. when you put them all together , you layer them like a cake, a lasagna.. learn and master them independently and then it becomes interdependently powerful. Opportunities, gathering as a tribe, people want others to learn and teach from others. Its so easy to find an audience, the question is being able to connect with that audience in a profound way. When you connect though, its remarkable. Be better with communication and your ideas heard. A massive boost to your entire presence to your career and your life as a whole. 

Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles

A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Becoming Your Inner Goddess

Goddess of Light, Love and Serenity

Inner Peace & Tranquility / The Chakras and What They Do. From Top To Bottom

 

As you probably know energy affects you more than you realize. Science has proven that everything in our universe is made of the same energy. But, How does it apply to me? Remember a time when you spoke to someone or encountered something or someone who was angry , stressed, anxious, or in a bad mood? what happened after? Chances are you began to feel it, maybe in your stomach, your heart or your head. It affected you somehow, it does not begin to stop there.

Sometimes you will begin to carry that energy throughout your day, and it ends up affecting everything you do. It will also begin to affect everyone you encounter. You bring it from one direction to the next, you might bring it home. It has a ripple effect and that it just one tiny example. Know that even a complete stranger can affect your life through just energy alone.

There is also a lucky and unlucky phenomenon where if you have ever had a lucky day, one where everything went right. One after another? Almost as if the stars were lined up and conspiring in your favor?

Have you ever had a bad day, where everything just went wrong and it just kept on piling up. All you wanted was to curl into a ball and hide from the world? It is not a coincidence that when these things begin to happen they are controlled by your energy circuits.

Your energy is more power than your thoughts and your emotions. The invisible thing that controls your mood is your energy. It controls everything. It is the one thing that most people do not focus on because they do not see it with their naked eye! Have you ever heard the saying (“Out of Sight, Out of Mind”)

When your energy and person vibration is high, most obstacles and challenges do not even appear , you begin to skip them. The ones that do appear, you are just able to handle them- maybe magically?

When your energy and personal vibration is low- then the pandoras box of negativity, fear, and unwanted scenarios come flooding into your life- and even the “smallest things” tend to bother you!

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Going through dark times is terrible, you need to know how to get rid of these limiting beliefs, emotions and actions that are dragging you down.  Within minutes you can become aware of mastering your energy fields. Your logical mind begins catching up with your negative thinking and thats what makes you aware of this and you feel much better afterward, However; you must be aware!!

When Everything flows, When chosen the right vibration and energy for myself for others, miracles being to happen several times a day! If you are dealing with this and you ask for signs, you will end up receiving the higher frequencies of self love and abundance. Sometimes when your in the right frequencies , what you desire the most finds its way to you effortlessly.

You have the physical body and you also have the energetic body and its a complex system. The energetic system is vast and extremely complex. Here are some of the basic  ones to remember for now. In our physical body we have physical organs. You have energetic organs which are known as chakras. Chakras affect you more than you know. They affect your emotions, mood, experiences, health and well being finances and relationships.

For physical bodies there are energetic toxins. Energetic toxins can come through internally or externally. We have physical skin, we also have energetic skin. Energetic skin would be the aura. Aura, depending on how sensitive you are, absorbs what it comes in contact with , just like our skin would.

We then have physical senses= 8 spiritual & energetic senses. This is like our five senses. ( sight, hearing, smell, taste and touch.) Our energetic senses help us make sense and decipher the invisible energy. Most of the biggest pain and struggle people experience is because they do not know how to take care of their energetic bodies.

Every painful and traumatic experience you have ever had since you were a child had a tremendous impact on you and its still affecting you and holding you back. It is a compounding affect. When you have energy that is stuck, your problems will keep reoccurring over and over again , and you wont be able to fully move forward regardless of how hard you are trying. If you have energy blocks in your system, there is an energetic blue print, to keep you from moving forward.

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Heres how it occurs, the painful experience will happen and the energy from that initially gets stored in your energetic body. Then the initial energy that was stored in your body from these painful experiences eventually turn into energetic patterns.

These energetic patterns keep you stuck, and cause you to keep re-experiencing the same problem over and over and over again. Unless you are able to remove the deeply – rooted energetic blocks that are stuck in your body. ( Sometimes on a deep cellular level ), You will be stuck where you are, and you wont be able to fully move forward.

Energy can get trapped, in auric fields, from day to day living, in chakras- from your own pain or from trauma others inflict upon you. In the actual organs, from internal to external sources. In karmic and energetic timelines. In DNA and Cellular levels – passed on from ancestors and generational trauma.

Lets use chakras as an example, its one of the hidden energetic systems that flows within our bodies and affects everything in our lives from our careers to relationships to inner peace.

Your crown chakra – has to do with spirituality, intuition, and purpose of work. So, if you are having issues in that area, theres most likely energetic toxins and blocks in your crown chakra.

Your third eye chakra- has to do with absorbing peoples energy, and tuning. Being able to tune into the energetic world. If you are sensitive to other peoples energies, theres most likely energetic toxins and blocks in your third eye chakra.

Your throat chakra has to do with speaking, your truth and confidence, and communication. So, if you are having communication issues, theres most likely energetic toxins and blocks in your throat chakra.

Your heart chakra- has to do with love and self love. If you have a hard time loving yourself, or you keep attracting toxic people into your life, theres most likely energetic toxins and blocks in your heart chakra.

Your solar plexus chakra- also called the power center, has to do with wisdom, self esteem, self worth and personal power. If you have a hard time standing up for yourself, or standing in your power , theres most likely energetic toxins and blocks in your solar plexus chakra.

Your root chakra- has to do with career, being grounded, and material abundance. If you have issues with money, abundance or staying grounded, theres most likely energetic toxins and blocks in your root chakra.

Laura Zukerman

Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles A Memoir By Laura Zukerman

Becoming Your Inner Goddess

Goddess On Fire