Real Love is about accepting people the way they are without wanting to change them. If we try to change them, this means we don’t really like them. Find someone who you don’t have to change at all.
It is much easier to find someone, the way you want him or her to be instead of trying to change that person. Also, that person must love you just the way you are. This is so he or she doesn’t have to change you at all. Why be with someone if your not the way he or she wants you to be. We have to be what we are so we don’t present a false image to the world.
Imagine the day you stop making assumptions with your partner. And eventually with everyone else in your life. Your way of communication will change completely. Your relationships will no longer suffer from conflicts, created by false assumptions.
The way to keep yourself from making these assumptions with your partner is asking questions. Make sure the communication between you both is clear, if you don’t understand ask. Have the courage to ask questions, until you are so clear. Also by doing this, they won’t assume all there is to know about a given situation. Once you hear the answer , you will not have to make assumptions because you will know the truth. Also find your voice to ask for what you want.
With clear communication, all of your relationships will change. Not only with your partner but with everyone else around you. You won’t need to make assumptions because everything will become so clear with the right person by your side. Here is an example ” This is what I want, This is what you want.” If we communicate in this way, our word becomes impeccable.
If all humans could communicate in this way, with impeccability of there words, there would be no wars, no violence, no misunderstandings. All human problems would be resolved if we have deep clear communication.
Owner and Founder At The Goddess Bibles A Memoir By Laura Zukerman
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