It is very interesting how the human mind works. We have a need to justify everything. To explain and understand everything, in order to feel safe.
We have millions of questions that need answers because there are so many things that the reasoning mind cannot understand. It is not important if the answer is correct, just the answer itself makes us feel safe. This is why we make assumptions. If others tell us something we make assumptions , and if they don’t tell us something we also make assumptions.
This is to fulfill our need to know and to replace the need to communicate. Even if we hear something and we don’t understand , we make assumptions about what it means and then we believe these assumptions.
We make all sorts of assumptions, because we don’t have the courage to ask questions. These assumptions are made so fast and unconsciously and most of the time because we have these agreements to communicate this way.
We have agreed that is not safe to ask questions; we have agreed that if people love us they should know what we want or how we feel. When we believe something we assume we are right, to the point that will ruin relationships to defend our position. We make assumptions that everyone sees life the way we do. We assume that others think the way we think. Feel the way we feel, judge the way we judge, and abuse the way we abuse.
This is the biggest assumption that humans make. This is why humans have fear of being themselves around others. Humans think everyone else will judge them, victimize them, abuse them, blame them, as we do ourselves. So even before others have a chance to reject , we have already rejected ourselves. That is the way the human mind works.
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